Do you/did you feel a sense of uneasy anxiety, and or/ confusion when you think of certain aspects of your relationship?

Do you/did you wonder if you are over-reacting or mis-remembering events?

Do you/did you tell yourself “it’s not /wasn’t that bad”?

Do you/did you find yourself clinging to memories of ‘good times’ even when the present day is consistently negative?

Do you/did you hide aspects of your relationship from others due to shame or embarrassment?

Do you/did you notice problematic patterns but choose/chose to overlook them?

Do you/did you question feeling stuck or paralyzed by indecision?

Do you/did you believe your partner is/was a good person but consistently treated you poorly?

Do you/did you minimize the abuse/suffering (of yourself and others)?